Bonus Birthday Post: It’s a Birthday Miracle!

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It’s a miracle!

Warning: This is a rare positive outlook post containing wonderment and miracles! Do not read if you are in a bad mood and want to continue to be in a bad mood. If you want to continue to be in a bad mood click here.

Friends! It’s my birthday! January 18. Can you believe it? Well, you should because everyone knows it goes like this: Chanukah, Christmas, New Year, Rachel’s Birthday! That’s how it has always been…since the day I was born. True story. 

I am now 33 years old. Sheesh… My gracious. Friends… let me tell you it is just taking me forever to get to be the age I feel on the inside. I was born a baby… but on the inside, I was really a 65-year-old woman. Nothing said that more than when I was 10 years old than how much I loved my grandmother’s hand me downs. Like legit grandma clothes…stuff that no 10 years old should wear. But darn it if I wasn’t rocking it like I was a 65-year-old lady myself. I was all … long hair don’t even care. I got this amazing windbreaker from her, I wish had a picture. Anyways my point is… I’ve been old since I was born.

That being said …I have to wonder how does my no buy impact my birthday? If you haven’t read about my no buy year you can check that out here to learn more about it. But in general, it’s just how it sounds, but don’t make assumptions if you didn’t read the post.

Usually, I might buy myself a birthday gift…nothing specific, maybe a piece of jewelry or a piece of clothing I really like. This year…not so much. As they are non-essential items. Womp womp. And, even though I have been unsubscribing to every store ever on email (which btw has really streamlined my emails) I still get stuff in the mail. So I get birthday coupons and discounts in the mail from stores encouraging me to shop there for my birthday and get a free gift!!!

I started getting those in the mail and email in December, friends! December!!!! Really uncool. Talk about catering to consumerism. It’s your birthday… buy $30 worth of stuff and get a $10 item for free!!!! Uncool! 

Usually, I would be all over it. Because it’s my birthday! But now it’s the first month of my no buy year which makes for a lackluster birth month… or does it? I think it makes my birthday a bit more special because I am realizing that I don’t need to be buying all the stuff to just have a good birthday. Because I got better stuff anyways…

So not to be awkward… but what’s this miracle you are talking about?

Right…let me tell you about my miracle! (Which is the better stuff btw!) As many of you already know, since you are here, I have many a chronic illness…a couple of which are asthma and bronchitis. Back in November, I began immunotherapy. If you haven’t read my previous post which goes into detail about what it is… Immunotherapy is basically an allergen cocktail to help boost immunity to allergens. My immunotherapy shots are done in both arms every other day, and yes …I do the shots myself…eek! It’s not so bad lol.

Here is a picture of how I set up my stuff when I do my shots every other day. I have my biohazard container for used needles, syringes, two vials of allergen serum created specifically for me and off to the side is a bottle of Benadryl because my arms get incredibly itchy afterward which is normal and taking the Benadryl helps to ease the itchiness.

 

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Image description: Set up of my every other day immunotherapy shots which includes: two vials of allergen serums, alcohol prep pads, two insulin size syringes, biohazard container and log to write down that I did my shots.

The purpose of these shots was to ease my asthma and bronchitis which is exacerbated mostly in the colder months. If I get a cold…it becomes bronchitis. If someone else has bronchitis…I get bronchitis. There’s generally no stopping it. Asthma and bronchitis are my longest running chronic illnesses that I have had since I was a child. And I get bronchitis yearly without fail…sometimes multiple times a year.

Okay…so where’s the dang miracle?!?!

This past week my 8-year-old stepson, Reid, became sick… he had a fever and started coughing. Usually any time he is sick and in the house with me…I get sick without fail. I don’t have the immunity to fight off the sickness. I kept washing my hands and just praying and putting it out to the universe that I wouldn’t get sick. 

And then yesterday (Thursday 1/17/19) Aaron took him to the doctor and it turned out he has bronchitis. He has bronchitis?!?!?!?! But I don’t?!?!?!?!

Back the truck up… On Wednesday 1/16/19 I went to see my allergist for a check in to pick up new vials of serum and she told me that the immunotherapy could be working for me. Since it’s winter, now is the time that I would be noticing the difference. And then Thursday Reid has bronchitis …and I can see the light!!!!! And immediately Fiddler on the Roof, Miracle of miracle started playing in my head. 

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Image description: Gif from Fiddler on the roof. A scene from the song miracle of miracles with Tzietel and Motel running through the forest. Text says Wonder of wonder, miracle of miracles!

I am absolutely thrilled for this birthday miracle. Friends, I can’t even tell you how many times I have been sick with bronchitis on my birthday. But not this one! Huzzah! It turns out there is still hope for random treatments working. My doctor and I tried this immunotherapy treatment as a sort of sweeping grand gesture last resort because there was nothing else left that would work for my asthma and bronchitis and there was really no assurance that it would work.

I don’t know if it will continue to be bronchitis free but I know that for right now I managed to live in the same house with bronchitis and not get it! This was just a short-ish bonus birthday post that I wanted to post today to share my excitement for this miracle that I am experiencing. I’ll post again at my usual time on Sunday!

This does indeed feel miraculous and wonderous. Happy birthday to me! 

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Image description: Never stop believing in hope because miracles happen every day.

 

 

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Having a support system

 

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A strong support system is crucial for people with chronic illness to survive and thrive. A support system can include family, friends, support group, doctors, other medical or holistic professionals. My support system is coming together nicely. 

 

The players:

Rachel – The One with IC and more

Debbie – The Mother

Aaron – The Boyfriend

Becca – The Thoughtful One

Shelby – The Cautious Optimist

Christine – The No Funny Business-er

Blinken – The Fluffy Cat

Stanley – The Ninja Cat

Marzipan – The Biggest Little Baby Cat

Ziggy – The Not-So-Nice Cat

Now that we have met the players and their roles. It’s important to understand how all of them will work on a macro and micro level. I know my relationship with each of these people as individuals so on a micro level it’s easy. But on a macro level, the system as a whole should work together fluidly. 

It’s important to find people who you trust, will be there to support you, have your best interest in mind and can be part of a team effort. This can be a difficult task to find a group of people. And for me, as an introvert, I don’t love the idea of having a group of people discussing my well being. But I need a solid plan and a strong support system. Each person

Each person in the support system plays their own role. One or two of them might be better at emotional support. While one might be better at providing support through actions, like someone who comes to see you once a week and cooks you dinner. They are showing you they care about you by being there for you regularly, even if they might not be the best with emotional support. And that’s okay if you have a strong enough support system then it’s good to have a variety of people who can provide different kinds of support. 

I will be planning a huge lifestyle diet change coming up within the next week or so. On Saturday, January 7th, my support system will have a round table discussion of what my diet will look like so that we are all on the same page. So I can go hang out with Becca and she already knows that I can’t eat tomatoes because of my IC and there’s a good chance I’ll cut out sugar and processed foods and so on. Everyone who is in my life already knowing will make it easier for me to follow through and be held accountable for my actions. 

 

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[Image description: Real friends support you no matter what. If you want to be a tuna fish then it’s my job to encourage you to be the best damn tuna fish that you can be.]