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It’s been awhile…with updates

 

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Image: My expectations for us moving in together are at least marginally higher than the medical community finding a cure for my chronic illnesses.

Okay…so I’ve kind of dropped the ball here. But it’s summer… that’s the excuse I’m going with. I’ve been busy with a kid and packing. First I’ve been super busy on the mommy train…just daily entertaining and dealing with Reid as best as I have been able to. My first week off of mommy duty which was the past week and I have literally spent the entire week from the time I woke up at 8 am until midnight packing.

Packing??? What for? To move. Yea that’s right I said it. I’m moving. Don’t worry I’m not going to far…not even out of state. But nonetheless here I go. Aaron and I are moving in together. We have been searching for a place to live for the past few months. We found a house.

All of this on top of my health… has been … eventful. I’ve been on and off antibiotics for my IC. Currently, I am off of them. Which always makes me feel extra crappy and kind of like I am getting a kidney infection so I am waiting for my urine broth culture results to come back.

And my doctor increased my Topamax, which is my migraine prevention medication because the visual auras flashing in my eyes has been getting out of control. The biggest issue is the side effects of this medication include problems with memory and struggling with word comprehension…and yes those side effects do impact me quite a bit. I love it…./sarcasm.

But hey…we are moving! To a house just outside of Washington DC, still in Maryland. It’s about 20 minutes from Gallaudet so it will be an easy commute for me to get to school. It’s a four bedroom house, with a basement, a screened in porch, backyard, fireplace (which we won’t use because of my asthma and bronchitis). And the biggest and best advantage is its 5 minutes away from Reid’s mom and her boyfriend. We wanted to find a house that was as close to Reid’s mom as possible. And we did! Just a few streets over. The house is everything we were searching for. 

I realize it’s a bit out of the norm trying to move closer to your child’s other parent. Usually, people want to escape their ex. And maybe for awhile, they did. But now it’s all changed. The four of us, work together to parent Reid. We constantly tell him that he has four parents who love him so much. We do monthly family dinners and see each other often. And now we will live within walking distance so Reid can have a closer relationship with all of us.

I am excited about all of this. Moving in with Aaron is huge. I never thought I would end up in a long term relationship. And now I’m moving in with Aaron and we have a family. Me, Aaron, Reid and my four awesome cats (Blinken, Stanley, Marzipan, and Ziggy). 

Getting packed up is difficult for me for a few reasons. Firstly, I have a lot to pack up…but who doesn’t…amiright?! Secondly, having chronic illness defintely makes packing more of a challenge. I tire more easily and feel weary. I need to be careful that I don’t overwork myself or I could make myself sick. So I take frequent breaks to rest and sometimes I have to just move slower than the average person. I started packing awhile ago so I would have more time to pack up and get ready. 

I’m going to work on keeping this blog better updated while packing and moving even if it means shorter posts. 

I have a few pictures to share. The first is from a wedding of a good friend of mine that Aaron and I went to recently. I just thought the picture looked cute because we were all matchy and adorable. And I forgot what it feels like to put on dramatic makeup…purple eyeshadow with a dark eyeliner and what not. It’s been a really long time…not to mention heels. Wow… I forgot how much heels suck. lol. I haven’t worn heels at least since I injured my ankle a couple years ago. But luckily my ankle was fine. 

I guess I wanted to show this picture, because as I always like to emphasis as someone with invisible chronic illnesses…it can be difficult to tell that I am in pain and chronically ill. I clean up really well and people don’t realize how much pain I’m in when I’m standing there smiling like this. 

 

Image: Rachel and Aaron standing in a gazebo with scenic farmscape in the background. Rachel smiling, her hair up. She is wearing a purple dress with white polka dots and black heels. Aaron is smiling, has his arm around Rachel. Wearing a black suit and a purple dress shirt to match Rachel's dress.
Image: Rachel and Aaron standing in a gazebo with scenic farmscape in the background. Rachel smiling, her hair up. She is wearing a purple 1950s style dress with white polka dots, black tulle poking out from underneath and black peekaboo heels. Aaron is smiling with his arm around Rachel, he is wearing a nicely tailored black suit and a purple dress shirt to match Rachel’s dress and his black tie and purple polka dots on it.

And the next picture I wanted to share is just a nice pic of me, Reid and a starfish at the Baltimore aquarium. We had a lot of fun along with my best friend Shelby. One thing that I would like to say is that I am always honest with Reid about my pain. He might not know all the exact details of my pain and illnesses but he knows I have pain and that I am sick and he can tell when I am in pain. So he knew walking around the aquarium was hard for me, but I wanted to take him because we had been talking about going for awhile. He knew that we would take frequent rest breaks and bathroom breaks.

This picture doesn’t display the amount of pain I was in or the fact that I had just taken a bunch of ibuprofen and tramadol to get me through. But it does show how much fun we were having regardless of my pain. 

Image: Background is a tank at the aquarium with various fish swimming around and a starfish stuck to the glass. Rachel kneeling down with her arms around Reid smiling. Reid wearing a bright green shirt smiling really big.
Image: Background is a tank at the aquarium with various fish swimming around and a starfish stuck to the glass directly above Rachel and Reid’s heads. Rachel kneeling down with her arms around Reid smiling. Reid wearing a bright green shirt and smiling really big.

And last picture below is our soon to be home as of August 4th. There’s no place like home. 🌈😍

image-house first floor red brick with red front door and two front windows on either side. Second floor light blue paneling with three windows and blue shutters. Chain link fence surround
image-house first floor red brick with red front door and two front windows on either side. Second-floor light blue paneling with three windows and blue shutters. Chain link fence surrounding the house.

 

 

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