If there’s one thing I know as a Jew, it’s that no matter what happens, we need to keep a sense of humor during the hard times or we will never survive until the good times. That’s factual Jewish lore…straight from the Jew’s mouth…errr..hands…well you get what I’m saying. You don’t have to be Jewish to have a sense of humor, though. Obvi. I am merely pointing out what has inspired me to keep the home humors burning.
Recently I came across a small yellow smiling bladder pin, call the Urine Luck pin. How adorable and weird is that? There was also have a magnet with that same smiling bladder that says, Don’t Stop Relieving. Two things about that…1) How cute! 2) This company called I Heart Guts makes plushies, pins and more, of the human organs. So those of us with chronic illnesses can embrace our dis-ease(s)…if you’re into that kind of thing. Personally…I am. They have this adorable yellow smiling bladder plushie, that I one day hope to take a selfie with. Maybe it’s a stand in for my actual bladder and I want to show my bladder how much I love it…so what if it is? Nothing wrong with a little self-love.
And then I came across an IC bladder plushie that stole my heart immediately. It’s teal, which is the color of IC awareness. And there’s a little bandaid on it… it is just perfection. Someone posted it in an IC support group on Facebook and they said they made it. As soon as I saw it, I knew I had to have it. I sent her a PM and asked if she sold them and where I could buy one. On her adorable Etsy shop, StitchandStuffed. (I do love me some Etsy!) I bought it and I anxiously await its arrival.
It’s no secret that I, and other IC warriors, have to use the bathroom a lot. I don’t know about them but I hate sitting on a cold seat. I always dread it. And then I saw this whimsical gem of a toilet seat cover, and I said to my cat, Marzipan, “Tell me I don’t need that in my life, Marzipan!” Marzipan looked at me like I was crazy and said, “Heck yea you need it!” People who know me, know that I love polka dots and the color pink (among other colors). So how cute is this seat cover? I haven’t bought it… yet. But I can just imagine…having to pee yet again. Walking to the bathroom with dread bubbling up inside of me because I know it’s going to hurt and I hate sitting on a cold toilet seat. And then I see the toilet seat cover. How can I not smile?? It will keep my tush warm, comfy and it’s just cute. Plus, when people come over and they go to use the bathroom, they will be like…what the heck?? It’s the little things in life. A bladder pin, a bladder magnet, a polka dotted toilet seat cover… etc… Obviously, these things are not laugh-out-loud funny. They are amusing and add whimsy to life. But humor comes in many forms. We cannot take it for granted.
Something else toilet related that gives me a good laugh is this ongoing schtick me and Aaron have going, toilet related, of course. He says he always puts the seat down, which he doesn’t. So he started taking pictures each time he put the seat down and so I started taking pictures of each time he leaves it up. When it is all said and done, I do reckon that we will make a lovely wall collage of these pictures. It’s something we always joke about and we always text each other the pictures of toilet seat up or down.
But each day is a depressing new struggle that just seems to bear the weight of all the days before it. That is so…depressing! Who wants to hear that or feel that all the time? Not me. But that’s my reality. And if you read my blog post from yesterday then you will know that I do struggle with chronic grief. But that’s why I am posting this because I have more than just grief. I have humor too. I have to find the things in this world that are funny, humorous, silly and whimsical, to get me through. Like bladder plushies and pins.
They say that laughter is the best medicine. Well anyone who is chronically ill might disagree, if only because we all know that laughter will not fix or heal our chronic pains. But laughter certainly is a good distraction from the pain. So when I’m in a lot of pain I often turn on Netflix and watch something funny to keep myself amused and my brain occupied.
Like I always say…laugh or cry. Yesterday I cried. So today I am laughing.
🔯And this is for my fellow Jews and people who appreciate Jew jokes 🙂 🔯